Iride Falconi
is an ordinary woman. Behind the bar at Caffe Turismo, she wipes
the counter and serves iced tea to her customers making conversation in
her pleasant dialect. She pauses periodically to refill her husband's
wineglass and bring it to him, out of sight in the back room, and returns
to speak proudly of her four grown children, Reginaldo, Anna, Romero,
and Luccio. Her family has always been her first concern, she explains,
and her children her greatest love. They are all grown now and have families
of their own, but Iride still thinks of motherhood as her primary role.
Iride Falconi
is an extraordinary woman. Her pale blue eyes shimmer and a coy grin keeps
appearing and disappearing on her 74-year old face. Though she leads a
simple life as a barista and a dedicated wife and mother, Iride
has a story. In fact she has several, and she begins pouring them out
in her sweet voice, intent on sharing all. "I have many stories," she
says, "but my stories are true." Her expression becomes serious, honesty
is important to Iride Falconi.

Iride's softly
wrinkled hands are steady as she flips through photographs of her family,
tenderly explaining the context of each one. She regrets that there are
no pictures from her wedding or from her childhood, but photographs were
very expensive, and Iride and her husband were both born of modest homes.
The photographs are not necessary; Iride's stories create vivid pictures
on their own - snapshots of the life of the mild mannered barista.
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The letter
arrives while Marino is at work, so Iride sees it first. Her husband has
been accepted to a program in Belgium where he will be trained to work
in the mines. The work is dangerous, and Iride will not be able to go
with him until his apprenticeship is over. She is afraid for her husband,
so she tears up the letter and throws it on the hearth. World War II has
just ended and work is scarce in Italy. Many of Cagli's men are looking
for work in Belgium's mines, and several of Marino's friends have been
accepted to the program. Weeks go by, and the young lumberjack is depressed
because he has not received his letter. Tearfully, Iride tells him what
she has done. He takes her in his arms. "Don't worry my darling," he says,
"I am too tired to work in the woods. I promise that soon I will bring
you to me."

Iride Falconi
is a happy woman. She has photographs of her years in Belgium. The oldest
one she has is of her family there. Although only her arm is visible in
the frame, she jokes that this is her favorite picture; her husband has
always been more beautiful, she explains. The photographs are beautiful,
and Iride speaks of them tenderly, but she says she was eager to return
to Cagli. She was alone in the house when Marino worked at night, and
she could never sleep until he returned. After 5 years, Marino grew very
thin and Iride pleaded with him to move the family back to Italy where
they could spend the rest of their lives. They had saved enough money
to buy a house, but had to remain in Belgium for three more years before
they could afford to furnish it. The couple bought the bar where Iride
now works. Her sons own it now, but Iride works as hard as ever. "Before,
my husband was very tired," she says, "now I am very tired, but I am very
satisfied with my life."
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Nine-year-old
Iride is watching her father cut wood. She loves to watch him work. He
is a good man, kind to his wife and children and it is striking to his
daughter that he can be both so good and so strong. She watches him work
outside in the summer sun, and notices for the first time the stub that
used to be his thumb. Crying, Iride runs into the house to her mother,
and understands the importance of her father's work. Without a thumb and
in the intense heat of summer, Iride's father works to provide for his
family. Young Iride vows to dedicate herself to work.
Iride Falconi
is a hardworking woman. For 42 years, she has awakened at 4 a.m. every
day to open and manage her family's bar. She is very tired, she says,
but very happy. Her hard work has taught her one thing -- her "treasure,"
she calls it, "When you are tired and upset, you must stop everything
and take one hour to think of your family." The happiness of the family
is the reward for hard work. Iride works while her husband rests, but
she explains that his rest is well deserved. Like his wife, Marino Baglioni
has worked hard. He married Iride when he was 19 and she 15, and went
to work in the woods as a lumberjack; Iride went with him. When she became
pregnant with their first child, she returned to the countryside outside
of Cagli but Marino remained in the woods to struggle to make a good life
for his wife and child. He still came home monthly to take his wife dancing.
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